I’d like to talk a little about relationship break-ups. So many news articles, documentaries, and shows about that heart-wrenching split between two people who used to be into each other.
Break up violence has no zipcode. It’s one of the most intense emotions in existence. People don’t own people. There is no future of any kind for your perceived relationship bliss with someone who wants to break up with you. They want to pursue other interests. It’s not going to work out. If you can see past that raw emotional exposed obsessive nerve, your life will go on and you will recover. Make your life about getting yourself together. You may certainly mourn the reality of the loss of whatever dream or perception of how you imagined life would be with that someone else. Facing the reality of the end of a relationship and breaking the addiction or obsession you have with another can be very hard. Lashing out at someone else who does not want to be with you anymore; however, solves nothing. — NOTHING!!!
Hurting someone only makes your situation worse. If you ever feel like hurting another either verbally or physically, don’t, just don’t. I implore anyone who feels threatened to let someone know. Bring the abhorrently-acting menace from the dark like a burrowed cockroach into the light of day.
It’s okay to feel blue and reassess where things may have gone wrong, but turning into a vicious animal of the Serengeti is extremely prohibitive. It not only has the potential to ruin the victim’s life, but yours and everyone’s lives who are touched by your two lives. Whether you are the perpetrator or the victim seek help.
Overcome sadness, grief, self-doubt, jealousy, hate, rage, hurt, control, and darkness by being your best self, not your worst. I cannot imagine what it would be like to be either the actor or the acted upon; however, as I keep saying… look to the light, keep putting one foot ahead of the other, and continually follow your arrow. You deserve to be treated well and are obligated to treat others well. Happiness always lies within you, not through someone else… Sandy